{"id":81339,"date":"2018-01-02T20:14:17","date_gmt":"2018-01-03T02:14:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/?p=81339"},"modified":"2025-11-07T09:06:51","modified_gmt":"2025-11-07T15:06:51","slug":"10-best-tactics-making-exercise-unbreakable-habit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/health-fitness\/fitness\/10-best-tactics-making-exercise-unbreakable-habit\/","title":{"rendered":"The 10 Best Ways to Make Exercise an Unbreakable Habit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-81365\" src=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2018\/01\/exercise.jpg\" alt=\"Vintage man lifting barbell above his head.\" width=\"500\" height=\"525\" srcset=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2018\/01\/exercise.jpg 976w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2018\/01\/exercise-768x806.jpg 768w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2018\/01\/exercise-320x336.jpg 320w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2018\/01\/exercise-640x671.jpg 640w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2018\/01\/exercise-400x420.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/>Exercising regularly is surely one of the most commonly made New Year\u2019s resolutions. And surely one of the most commonly broken. Gyms around the world fill up with freshly-minted members in January . . . who are almost all gone by February.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve resolved and failed, and resolved and failed to start working out consistently, you know it can be a really discouraging cycle. Cementing the exercise habit can seem like an impossible task.<\/p>\n<p>But it truly doesn\u2019t have to be, as long you take the right approach. Below we share 10 key tactics that will help you make exercise an unbreakable habit.<\/p>\n<h3>#1: Do something you enjoy doing.<strong>&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been barbell training for the past two years, and during that time I&#8217;ve missed just a handful of workouts, and only when stricken with an extreme illness (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/train-youre-sick\/\">I still work out if I&#8217;m just a little sick<\/a>). I&#8217;ve trained on Thanksgiving. I\u2019ve trained on Christmas. I\u2019ve trained on vacation. But I don\u2019t have this streak going because I&#8217;m super dedicated and disciplined and force myself to work out even when I don&#8217;t want to.<\/p>\n<p>I merely enjoy barbell training. A lot! I don\u2019t work out so regularly because I\u2019m a hard-as-nails badass, but because I <em>want<\/em> to. Because I like it.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to exercise, people tend to think that for it to work, it has to be unpleasant. They think exercise is like eating Brussels sprouts; you may not like the taste, but you\u2019ve got to get \u2018em down because they\u2019re good for you. Yet while these folks can flog themselves to exercise for a few weeks or even a few months out of a sense of dour obedience, they&#8217;re ultimately kicking against the pricks. Eventually, their dislike for their chosen regimen overpowers their will, and they stop working out altogether.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s true that to be effective <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/embracing-grind-barbell-training-beyond\/\">all exercise will involve some discomfort<\/a>. And it\u2019s true that certain kinds of exercise are more or less effective than others. But all exercise is good for you, any exercise is better than none, and if you choose the right form of it &#8212; the form that\u2019s right for you &#8212; it can in fact hurt so good and be a source of great pleasure.<\/p>\n<p>Lots of people will say you should do CrossFit; that you should run; that you should do barbell training. These people mean well. They likely enjoy those activities and have gotten results from them and want you to experience the same benefit. But if you don&#8217;t like what they think you &#8220;should&#8221; be doing, you&#8217;re not going to do it.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/character\/advice\/dont-should-all-over-yourself\/\">should-ing on yourself<\/a> by exercising the way some person or some magazine told you to, find something that <em>you <\/em>enjoy doing. This will take some time and experimentation. If you don\u2019t like road running, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/trail-running-101\/\">try trail running<\/a>. If you don\u2019t like running at all, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/the-benefits-of-rucking\/\">try rucking<\/a>. If you don\u2019t like lifting weights, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/podcast-177-homemade-muscle-bodyweight-training\/\">try a bodyweight program<\/a>. If you don\u2019t like working out by yourself, try joining a CrossFit class, or a martial arts school, or a team sport.<\/p>\n<p>I spent nearly ten years begrudgingly doing cardio-heavy and CrossFit-like workout programs before I discovered my love for barbell training. I recently found that I also enjoy rucking and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/a-primer-on-movnat\/\">MovNat<\/a> as well, so that&#8217;s part of my exercise routine, too. Exercise is now something I look forward to &#8212; it in fact feels like one of the best parts of my life; consequently, it would take more discipline for me <em>not<\/em> to do a workout than to do one!<\/p>\n<p>Bottom line: if you want to make exercise a habit, start off by picking an activity you enjoy. If you do that, you&#8217;ll be 90% there to becoming a man who exercises religiously.<\/p>\n<h3>#2: Put your training schedule on your calendar.<\/h3>\n<p>Besides picking an activity that they don&#8217;t enjoy doing, the other thing that keeps people from regularly exercising is not setting aside time for it on their calendar. For these folks, exercise is one of those things that they&#8217;ll get to . . . if they have time for it. But, of course, they never do, because something else always comes up.<\/p>\n<p>If you want time to exercise, you have to <em>make<\/em> time for it. And the best way to do that is to schedule your workouts on your calendar and treat them like doctor&#8217;s appointments. Just as you&#8217;d tell someone you were busy if they wanted to do something at the same time you were scheduled to see a doc, you&#8217;re going to inform people you&#8217;re busy when they ask you to do something during your workout \u201cappointment.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>#3: Experiment to find the workout time that\u2019s best for you.<\/h3>\n<p>At what time should you schedule your workout \u201cappointments\u201d? That\u2019s up to you.<\/p>\n<p>Many people find that it\u2019s best to exercise first thing in the morning; that way, when they get tired and stressed, or \u201curgent\u201d to-do\u2019s pile-up as the day goes on, their workout doesn\u2019t end up getting pushed off the schedule. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/put-the-big-rocks-in-first-video\/\">When you put the big rocks in first, all the small rocks can fit too<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>However, that\u2019s not an inviolable rule for everyone. Everybody\u2019s got different work\/life schedules and different rhythms to their daily energy and motivation. Maybe you\u2019ll love working out at lunchtime or at night. You\u2019ll never know unless you try. Experiment with different options and see what works best for you.<\/p>\n<h3>#4: Remove obstacles with a pre-workout checklist.<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/artofmanliness\/319-making-exercise-a-habit\">When I interviewed bodyweight training coach Anthony Arvanitakis for the podcast<\/a>, he told me that one thing he does to ritualize his workouts is to use a pre-workout checklist. His checklist includes making sure his phone is charged so it won\u2019t quit playing music in the middle of his workout, putting the phone in airplane mode so calls and texts won\u2019t create distractions, filling up his water bottle, preparing equipment in his gym so nothing\u2019s missing and everything\u2019s right at hand, and changing into certain workout clothes.<\/p>\n<p>Arvanitakis keeps this checklist on an index card and reviews it each day, as he says he finds doing so \u201ccomforting.\u201d As he observes, \u201cThe most difficult part in a workout is getting started,\u201d and \u201cHaving that list gets you in the flow.\u201d It eliminates decision-making and friction, so there\u2019s less standing in the way of you getting your sweat on.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Listen to my podcast with Anthony about making exercise a habit:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/w.soundcloud.com\/player\/?url=https%3A\/\/api.soundcloud.com\/tracks\/331933684&amp;color=%23ff5500&amp;auto_play=false&amp;hide_related=false&amp;show_comments=true&amp;show_user=true&amp;show_reposts=false&amp;show_teaser=true\" width=\"100%\" height=\"166\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3>#5: Have clothes specifically dedicated to working out.<\/h3>\n<p>Another thing Arvanitakis recommends is having sets of clothes you specifically designate as your workout clothes. He thinks of his workout gear as his \u201cuniform\u201d and feels that donning it helps him get in the mindset to exercise.<\/p>\n<p>When you put on clothes you don\u2019t associate with anything other than exercise, this \u201cuniform\u201d does indeed help you get into workout mode and feel ready to go out to \u201cbattle\u201d at the gym.<strong>&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>#6: Have a plan for your workout.<\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t just plan your pre-workout ritual, but know exactly what you\u2019ll be doing once you hit the gym as well.<\/p>\n<p>When most people take a first stab at working out, they just show up at the gym and do whatever exercise the gym spirits move them to do. A few bicep curls here, maybe some <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/health-fitness\/fitness\/medicine-ball-exercises\/\">medicine ball action<\/a>, followed by some leg presses. Thirty minutes after aimlessly wandering around the gym, they get bored and hit the sauna. After a few weeks of unproductive \u201cworkouts\u201d like that, and unsurprisingly seeing no results, they stop going altogether.<\/p>\n<p>Uncertainty is a big motivation killer. It causes paralysis by analysis so you end up doing nothing. And when you do nothing, your body and health don\u2019t change. And when your body and health don\u2019t change, you lose motivation to exercise.<\/p>\n<p>To avoid this fate, have a workout plan for yourself before you head over to the gym. Know exactly which exercises you&#8217;re going to do and for how many sets and reps. Write your plan down, bring it with you to the gym, and refer to it frequently throughout your session so you stick to it. If you&#8217;re running, have a weekly running plan for yourself so you know that you&#8217;ll be working on speed one day and endurance another.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;d be surprised at how much having a plan can keep you motivated to work out. It removes motivation-sapping uncertainty and ensures you actually see motivation-boosting results. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Not sure what your workout plan should be? I\u2019d highly recommend not trying to come up with it willy-nilly on your own, but instead committing to a set program that\u2019s been designed by experts. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/fitness-program-right\/\">Here\u2019s a list of programs I recommend which suit a variety of fitness goals<\/a>. I, of course, <a href=\"https:\/\/store.barbell-logic.com\/?ref=artofmanliness\">heartily suggest Starting Strength<\/a> above all, but if that&#8217;s not your thing, that&#8217;s fine. Just pick a plan you think you\u2019ll enjoy, and then work that plan. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>#7: Just get moving, even when you don\u2019t feel like it.<\/h3>\n<p>As mentioned above, the hardest part of working out for a lot of folks is simply getting started. Oftentimes, you just don\u2019t feel like exercising. You don\u2019t feel like getting out of bed or off the comfy couch. You don\u2019t feel like leaving the house. The pull of inertia is strong.<\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, one of the great truisms of life, is that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/character\/behavior\/meditations-wisdom-action\/\">if you take action without feeling like it, the feelings will follow<\/a>. If you don\u2019t feel like working out, but get after it anyway, you\u2019ll almost always get into the flow and start to enjoy it.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this sets up a catch-22: you\u2019ll feel like working out if you start working out, but how do you start if you don\u2019t feel like it?<\/p>\n<p>Try making a deal with yourself. Decide that all you have to do is go to the gym and work out for 10 minutes; if after 10 minutes you don\u2019t want to do any more, then you can go home. It\u2019s an easy deal to commit to. Of course, what happens 9 times out of 10 is that once you\u2019re at the gym, and moving your body, you get into an exercise-positive mindset and want to continue on and do a full workout.<\/p>\n<h3>#8: Aim for consistency in frequency, rather than consistently A+ workouts.<\/h3>\n<p>A key to making something a habit is putting together a chain of successes, which is, at least at first, rarely or never broken. To lay down a new groove in your life, you\u2019ve got to etch away at it without interruption. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So always err on the side of doing <em>something<\/em>, even when circumstances prevent you from doing a \u201cperfect\u201d workout. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/train-youre-sick\/\">Feeling just a little sick?<\/a> Still work out, but go a little easier. Have a crazy busy day? Still work out, but make it a little shorter. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/how-to-stay-fit-and-maintain-your-gains-while-still-enjoying-your-vacation\/\">Traveling?<\/a> Still work out, even if you have to improvise with the equipment available in the hotel gym. Sluggish and grouchy and can\u2019t get into the mood to exercise even after you\u2019ve tried? Still move, however tepidly, through your planned workout.<\/p>\n<p>Even if 9 times out of 10 when you start a workout without feeling like it, you end up getting into it, there\u2019s still that one time where you don\u2019t. Try to at least go through the motions anyway. My <a href=\"https:\/\/store.barbell-logic.com\/art-of-manliness\/\">Barbell Logic Online Coaching<\/a> strength coach Matt Reynolds calls these times \u201cblue collar days.\u201d You\u2019ve just got to put on your hardhat, put on your coveralls, and do the work. You simply punch the clock and get the job done. You don\u2019t clock out having made big gains with your physique, but that\u2019s okay &#8212; you still strengthened the \u201cmuscle\u201d of your exercise habit.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, listen to your body (and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/workout-recovery\/\">be sure you\u2019re doing recovery right<\/a>), but also don\u2019t take an all-or-nothing approach to your workouts. When conditions aren\u2019t perfect, it\u2019s better to continue the habit chain, and do <em>something<\/em>, than to decide it\u2019s all a wash and do nothing at all.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to habit formation, consistency is king.<\/p>\n<h3>#9: Exercise <em>for<\/em> something.<\/h3>\n<p>Motivation research shows that when we have a clear purpose for a task, we&#8217;re more likely to do that task regularly. So have a <em>why<\/em> for your workouts. It could be something high-minded like being <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/every-man-should-be-able-to-save-his-own-life-5-fitness-benchmarks-a-man-must-master\/\">ready for emergencies<\/a> or living a long time for your kids and\/or grandkids, but it could also be something vain like just wanting to look good with your shirt off. Whatever it is, write it down and refer to it every day. When you don\u2019t feel like going to the gym, read your purpose to remind yourself of why you&#8217;re trying to exercise regularly.<\/p>\n<p>For me, competitions serve as a big motivator for training. Signing up for a barbell meet gives me something very concrete and date-specific to train for, and knowing that I will be performing my lifts in front of lots of people lights a fire under my rear to keep up my training.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re looking to run more this year, sign yourself up for a 5K or an obstacle race a few months from now. Your goal might not be to win the race, but just not to look like an out-of-shape schlub hoofing through the course like an asthmatic water buffalo. Shame is a powerful motivator.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>#10: Get accountability.&nbsp;<\/h3>\n<p>Some people find it useful to get an accountability partner for their workouts. This could be a personal trainer or a coach, or it could be a friend. Getting a barbell coach was a game changer for me and my training. Besides the feedback on my lifts, the accountability factor has played a huge role in my compliance with the programming. I don&#8217;t want to let my coach down by wussing out on a session. Again, shame can be a powerful motivator.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to take the accountability up a level, then put some stakes on the line. Paying for a coach or trainer is one way to do this. Knowing that you&#8217;re putting your money in a metaphorical paper shredder every time you miss a session can motivate you not to miss a workout. <a href=\"https:\/\/strenuouslife.co\/\">Join The Strenuous Life<\/a>, where you\u2019ll have to do 60 minutes of physical activity on most days for 12 weeks to complete the TSL Challenge. Or use something like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stickk.com\/\">stickK<\/a> to set up a wager with a friend that says if you miss more than two workouts in a row, you have to pay him or even some organization you detest a certain amount of money. The amount needs to be large enough so that it hurts if you fail to meet your end of the bargain.<\/p>\n<h3>Conclusion<\/h3>\n<p>Making exercise a habit doesn&#8217;t need to be hard. Find something you enjoy, plan for it, prioritize it, and point it towards a purpose. Keep adding one link after another to the chain of your new habit, and soon you\u2019ll find yourself becoming the kind of man who finds it difficult <em>not<\/em> to exercise.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Exercising regularly is surely one of the most commonly made New Year\u2019s resolutions. And surely one of the most commonly broken. Gyms around the world fill up with freshly-minted members in January . . . who are almost all gone by February. If you\u2019ve resolved and failed, and resolved and failed to start working [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":100705,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,230,7],"tags":[],"yst_prominent_words":[],"class_list":["post-81339","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-featured","category-fitness","category-health-fitness"],"featured_image_urls":{"large":"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2018\/01\/habit-1-495x280.png","aom":"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2018\/01\/habit-1-372x230.png","reactor-320":"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2018\/01\/habit-1-320x213.png"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81339","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81339"}],"version-history":[{"count":30,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81339\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":81374,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81339\/revisions\/81374"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/100705"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81339"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81339"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81339"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=81339"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}