{"id":54550,"date":"2016-02-22T10:26:47","date_gmt":"2016-02-22T16:26:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/?p=54550"},"modified":"2026-03-10T12:47:34","modified_gmt":"2026-03-10T17:47:34","slug":"break-smartphone-habit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/character\/self-improvement\/break-smartphone-habit\/","title":{"rendered":"The Complete Guide to Breaking Your Smartphone Habit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-54585 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Smartphone-Header.jpg\" alt=\"Youngest looking at smartphones with blocking faces. \" width=\"650\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Smartphone-Header.jpg 650w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Smartphone-Header-320x197.jpg 320w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Smartphone-Header-640x394.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Smartphones are magical.<\/p>\n<p>A device that\u2019s small enough to fit in your pocket, allows you to instantly communicate with virtually anyone on earth, take breathtaking photos, and access humanity\u2019s collected knowledge. Amazing!<\/p>\n<p>But like any magical implement, the smartphone\u2019s power can be so consuming that all you want to do is stare into its comforting, glowing, little screen and cling to it like Gollum does his \u201cPrecious\u201d in <em>The Lord of the Rings<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Unsurprisingly a growing number of people feel disconcerted with the insatiable pull their phones exercise on them, and are unhappy with the amount of time and attention they give to these devices in return. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/podcast-168-the-value-of-deep-work-in-the-age-of-distraction\/\">When I talked with professor Cal Newport on my podcast<\/a> about what smartphones are doing to our minds, the discussion seemed to really resonate with a lot of you. I received a sack full of letters from readers sharing their frustration with their smartphone use and how it\u2019s hurt&nbsp;their relationships, and gotten in the way of not only doing productive and meaningful work, but&nbsp;being fully present in their lives.<\/p>\n<p>Many of you also wanted to know the names of the apps I mentioned on the podcast that I personally have found helpful in managing my own smartphone use. Today I\u2019ll share those apps, while also laying out a more encompassing guide to breaking the smartphone habit. While putting certain access blockers on your phone&nbsp;can be a great help, you also have to take a truly holistic and intentional approach to maintaining a healthy relationship with your phone.<\/p>\n<p>Below I present such a game plan with all the tools and techniques you might consider implementing in order to get a handle on your smartphone habit. I really couldn\u2019t find a comparable resource online, so I\u2019ve made this article pretty robust, with ideas that can work regardless of your situation in life, how you want\/need to use your smartphone for business and pleasure, and which phone you use.<\/p>\n<p>For ease in sorting through it all and figuring out which approach might work best for you, I\u2019ve 1) created a flow chart, and 2) offered a summary of what I\u2019ve done in my own life to drastically reduce the amount of time I spend on my smartphone; hopefully it will give you a better grasp of how these apps and techniques can be implemented.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s get started, beginning with why you might consider limiting your smartphone use in the first place.<\/p>\n<h3>The Negative Effects of Chronic Smartphone Use<\/h3>\n<p>For many folks, checking and twiddling with their smartphone has become a habit boarding on addiction. Many would shrug off this ubiquitous habit as simply a harmless distraction from boredom, and certainly smartphones can be a big positive in our lives &#8212; a source of both entertainment and a nearly indispensable tool for business and communication in the modern world.<\/p>\n<p>Yet research shows that heavy smartphone use can also have a deleterious effect on several different aspects of our lives:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Loss of empathy and&nbsp;connection with others<\/strong>. In <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1594205558\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1594205558&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=stucosuccess&amp;linkId=FSXA3GZUT5SFDAZ4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Reclaiming Conversation<\/a><\/em>, MIT professor Sherry Turkle highlights research that communication mediated through smartphone screens makes us less empathetic. Texting can be convenient, but we lose the inflections, tone, and facial expressions that are so key in our bonding with and understanding others. (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/podcast-155-reclaiming-conversation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">For even more insight on this topic, check out my interview with her on the podcast.<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>Heck, research shows that simply having a smartphone in our line of sight causes us to pay less attention to the people we\u2019re with and keep our conversations more superficial; when there\u2019s a good chance we\u2019ll be interrupted, we don\u2019t see the point in trying to connect with someone on a deeper level.<\/p>\n<p>While there are lots of factors contributing to the increasing sense of loneliness in Western society, growing smartphone use has certainly played a role.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Loss of sleep.<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/health\/article-2989952\/How-technology-taking-lives-spend-time-phones-laptops-SLEEPING.html\">According to surveys<\/a>, 44% of those 18-24 say they fall asleep with their smartphone in their hand, and a quarter say, &#8220;I don&#8217;t sleep as well as I used to because I am connected to technology all the time.\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/health\/archive\/2015\/02\/how-smartphones-are-ruining-our-sleep\/385792\/\">Smartphone use can negatively impact your sleep<\/a> because its blue light messes with your circadian rhythm, and its pings can awaken you after you\u2019ve dozed off; 4 in 10 adults and teenagers say they\u2019ve checked their phone in the middle of the night after getting a notification. If you\u2019re anxious about how someone\u2019s going to respond to your text, you may also simply have trouble putting the phone aside and falling asleep in the first place.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Loss of focus and the ability to do deep, meaningful work.<\/strong> Even though one of the original selling points of smartphones was&nbsp;their ability to help us get work done on the go, they\u2019re ironically one of the greatest inhibitors of our productivity.<\/p>\n<p>In <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B00X47ZVXM\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B00X47ZVXM&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=stucosuccess&amp;linkId=FSXA3GZUT5SFDAZ4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Deep Work<\/a><\/em>, Cal Newport makes the case that smartphones, along with other digital devices, are training our brains to be constantly distracted. The pings and buzzes of smartphone notifications condition us to stay in a state of divided attention; we can never truly immerse ourselves in a task because there\u2019s a chance we\u2019ll miss something on our phones.<\/p>\n<p>Newport highlights research showing that even when chronic smartphone and computer users shut everything off so they can focus on a single task, the habit of operating with divided attention is so ingrained in their brains, they still have a hard time concentrating. In other words, smartphones atrophy our ability to think and work deeply.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Loss of the ability to be <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/being-fully-present-as-a-man\/\">fully present in your life<\/a>.<\/strong> More people reach for their smartphone first thing in the morning than their significant other. People spend an average of 8 hours a day on their laptops and smartphones, and 81% say they have their phone switched on all the time. Over half of Millennials say they check and use their phone \u201cconstantly.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Each time you look down at your phone\u2019s screen, you\u2019re not looking at something else in your environment. You\u2019re not looking at your kids, or the beautiful scenery on a trip, or the friend who\u2019s sitting right across from you. You\u2019re not present. By giving your phone hours of your life, day after day, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/are-you-missing-the-forbidden-city\/\">what might you be missing out on<\/a>?<\/p>\n<h3><u>How to Break the Smartphone Habit<\/u><\/h3>\n<div id=\"attachment_54648\" style=\"width: 570px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/\/2016\/02\/smartphoneflowchart1-1.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-54648 noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-54648\" class=\"wp-image-54648 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2016\/02\/smartphoneflowchart1.jpg\" alt=\"Break your smartphone habit illustration. \" width=\"560\" height=\"379\" srcset=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2016\/02\/smartphoneflowchart1.jpg 560w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2016\/02\/smartphoneflowchart1-320x217.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-54648\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/\/2016\/02\/smartphoneflowchart1-1.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Click to view larger image<\/a> Flowchart by David B. Dial<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Are you tired of being unable to really engage in conversations with your friends because you\u2019re always checking your phone? Do you feel guilty about how often your kids catch you staring at a screen when you should be interacting with them? Are you sick of ending each day bemoaning your utter lack of focus and productivity at work, and how little progress you\u2019re making on your goals?<\/p>\n<p>While the bad news is that chronic smartphone use can have a negative impact on your life, the good news is that research demonstrates that the restless, distraction-producing itch they exercise on us can be reversed. It just takes some work and discipline to get a handle on your habit. Here&#8217;s how to do it:<\/p>\n<h3>Perform an Audit on Your Cell Phone Use<\/h3>\n<p>The first step in breaking the smartphone habit is to measure how much time you\u2019re actually spending on your phone throughout the day. Seeing how you\u2019re using it will allow you to make more intentional and mindful decisions about the kind of relationship you want to have with your phone.<\/p>\n<p>Heck, just seeing hard numbers on how much time you\u2019re spending on your phone can affect your use. When I saw that I checked my smartphone 100 times in a day, I immediately started checking it less.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks to a few apps out there, auditing your smartphone use is pretty easy. Android has more robust tracking apps than the iPhone thanks to the openness of the Android platform. So you\u2019ll find that most of the apps I list are Android (this will be a re-occurring theme). Many of them&nbsp;not only track your smartphone time, but can also help you manage that time, which will come in handy in \u201cdumbifying\u201d your phone, which we\u2019ll discuss below.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Auditing Apps Available for Both iPhone and Android<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.checkyapp.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Checky.<\/a><\/strong> This app shows you how many times you\u2019ve checked your smartphone a day and allows you to compare stats day to day. While it doesn\u2019t show you how much time you\u2019re spending within each app on your phone, just seeing how many times you pick up your phone and swipe the unlock screen can provide some much-needed perspective on your smartphone use.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Auditing Apps Available for Android Only<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rescuetime.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">RescueTime.<\/a><\/strong> RescueTime is a paid service that allows you track how much time you spend on certain websites and even how long you use certain apps on your computer and smartphone. You simply create an account with RescueTime, install the app on your smartphone, and the software takes care of the rest.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of each week, RescueTime will send you an email report that gives you a breakdown of how much time you spent within each app on your smartphone.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.qualitytimeapp.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">QualityTime.<\/a><\/strong> QualityTime is another Android app that tracks app usage and gives you detailed breakdowns of how much time you\u2019re spending on each. You can set time limits for each app and QualityTime will send you a warning when you\u2019re getting close to your limit. You can even block certain time-wasting apps.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Auditing App Available for iPhone Only<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/inthemoment.io\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Moment.<\/a><\/strong> While Moment doesn\u2019t tell you how much time you\u2019re spending within each app on your iPhone, it gives you an overall look at how much time you spend on your phone each day. Moment allows you to set time limits on your iPhone usage, and once you reach it, the app will block you from using your device.<\/p>\n<p>Pick a tracking app and use it for a week. Use your smartphone as you usually do (though, that\u2019s hard because once you start observing a particular behavior, that behavior typically changes). By the end of the week, you should have a rough idea of how often you\u2019re checking your smartphone and exactly how you\u2019re using it.<\/p>\n<h3>Going&nbsp;Nuclear, or Getting a \u201cDumbphone\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>Alright. It\u2019s been a week, and you have a good idea of how much you\u2019re using your smartphone and what apps you\u2019re using. Maybe you\u2019re so appalled by the results of your smartphone audit that you decide the best course of action is to completely chuck your smartphone altogether and downgrade to a rudimentary \u201cdumbphone\u201d that just allows you to make calls and send simple text messages.<\/p>\n<p>If that\u2019s what you decide to do, you\u2019ll be in good company. In recent years there\u2019s been a burgeoning \u201cdumbphone movement\u201d in which individuals deliberately choose to opt out of the culture of hyper-connectedness by using cell phones that looks like the one you owned back in 2001. By eliminating the ability to access apps on their phones, these retronauts eliminate the temptation to constantly check them.<\/p>\n<p>Ironically, many of the developers and business execs in Silicon Valley who&nbsp;are making addiction-inducing smartphone apps, count themselves as members of the dumbphone movement. By going with the dumbphone, they\u2019re better able to focus on the work of making you less focused. They\u2019re like junk food execs who want to get you hooked on Doritos, but eat a clean paleo diet themselves!<\/p>\n<p>Besides saving your attention span, dumbphones come with other upsides as well. For starters, the devices themselves are significantly cheaper than their high-powered smartphone counterparts and their data plans only cost a few dollars a month. What\u2019s more, dumbphones eliminate the temptation to continually upgrade your device to the latest and greatest. If all you want to do is make calls and send text messages, you don\u2019t need a phone with a built-in heart rate monitor or a screen that will scroll automatically as you read.<\/p>\n<p>Dumbphones also provide more security and privacy than smartphones. Many high-level executives prefer the dumbphone because it poses less of a security risk if it\u2019s lost or stolen. Think about the amount of sensitive data you keep on your smartphone &#8212; bank account info in your banking apps, emails, stored passwords, etc. A person with malintent could do a lot of damage if they got ahold of your phone. And if you\u2019re concerned about corporations or the government tracking your every movement around the globe, dumbphones lack GPS.<\/p>\n<p>If switching to a dumbphone seems like the best option for you, here are a few to check out:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3i3vSju\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Samsung Jitterbug<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Nokia-Unlocked-Dual-Band-Phone-Flashlight\/dp\/B00KGIOFQQ\/ref=as_li_ss_tl?s=electronics&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1432655427&amp;sr=1-2&amp;keywords=nokia+106&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=stucosuccess-20&amp;linkId=98f3effed393bf9e38e0150d2c4e9c5f\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Nokia 106<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/BLU-Unlocked-Dual-SIM-Camera-Battery\/dp\/B00O5EU7TQ\/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1455810050&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=blu+feature+phone&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=stucosuccess-20&amp;linkId=738b4a3b8752ff78658cff82c52ac2dc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Blu Tank II<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Doro-PhoneEasy-618-Mobile-Burgundy\/dp\/B00H68LNLY\/ref=as_li_ss_tl?s=electronics&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1455810205&amp;sr=1-2&amp;keywords=Doro+Phone+Easy&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=stucosuccess-20&amp;linkId=5e84327cd445adeb4089e1315114268e\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Doro PhoneEasy<\/a> (according to rumors that Cal Newport has heard, this is a popular phone with business executives)<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Emporia-Essence-Unlocked-Elderly-Cellular\/dp\/B00A1OW60C\/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;dpID=41wnxf1OTSL&amp;dpSrc=sims&amp;preST=_AC_UL160_SR160,160_&amp;refRID=0ZF4XW3V1CHEYHAQ9FHV&amp;linkCode=sl1&amp;tag=stucosuccess-20&amp;linkId=91f59a4e5bc643e3d5e1f23a39d5c59a\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Emporia Essence Plus<\/a> (made for seniors, so it has a giant SOS button on the back in case you&#8217;ve fallen and can&#8217;t get up)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em><strong>Listen to our podcast with Cal Newport about digital minimalism:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.simplecast.com\/b4a9d5ab-64d3-4296-a1d2-70a2a061fafb?dark=true\" width=\"100%\" height=\"200px\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless=\"\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3>Making Your Smartphone Dumber<\/h3>\n<p>After seriously considering ditching the smartphone, you\u2019ve decided owning a dumbphone just isn\u2019t going to be a viable option for you. Maybe your work requires you to answer email from your phone and use other apps. Or maybe you like being able to snap high-quality pics of your kids using your phone\u2019s built-in camera.<\/p>\n<p>Completely understandable.<\/p>\n<p>The question then becomes how do you take advantage of all the benefits that come with your smartphone while not getting sucked into the smartphone-checking habit?<\/p>\n<p>The answer is to make your smartphone dumber. Below I show you various ways how.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Change Your Smartphone Settings to Make Your Smartphone&nbsp;Dumber<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The first tactic you can use to make your smartphone dumber is changing settings on your phone so that it acts more like a dumbphone. This can be done by turning off notifications as well as your cellular data and wifi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Turn off notifications.<\/strong> The easiest thing you can do to instantly reduce the itch to check your smartphone is to turn off notifications.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things that makes these devices so irresistible to check are the pings, buzzes, and flashing lights that go off whenever you get a new email or someone has commented on your Instagram pic. They\u2019re like Pavlovian bells that condition you to immediately pick up your phone as soon as the little&nbsp;light starts flashing. The conditioning can get so deep that you may find yourself constantly glancing at your phone in mere anticipation of incoming notifications. It\u2019s hard to be present and focused on the task at hand when you\u2019re eyeing your smartphone every ten seconds.<\/p>\n<p>You can curb this technological salivation by getting rid of notifications. Within every app on your phone, you have the option to turn notifications on or off. App makers prefer that you turn notifications on because it means you\u2019ll check their app more frequently. Consequently, many apps are designed to automatically opt you into notifications and require you to manually opt out.<\/p>\n<p>Go through all your essential, yet distracting smartphone apps and turn off the notifications. This includes email and messaging apps. You\u2019ll be amazed how this one little change will dramatically reduce how often you check your smartphone. Without the buzz or flashing light, there\u2019s no cue for you to check your phone. Instead, you\u2019ll check it&nbsp;whenever you consciously decide to.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Turn off cellular data and wifi.&nbsp;<\/strong>Let\u2019s assume you\u2019ve turned off notifications, but you still have the itch to pick up your phone to check email or other apps. You can change the settings on your smartphone to make it temporarily dumb for certain periods of time. All you need to do is turn off your cellular data and wifi.<\/p>\n<p>When you turn these services off, you\u2019ll still be able to make calls and send simple text messages. You just won\u2019t be able to refresh your email inbox, or check Instagram or Snapchat, or send or receive pics via text messaging &#8212;&nbsp;you know, the really distracting things on your smartphone.<\/p>\n<p>Turning off wifi is easy to do on both iPhone and Android. Figuring out how to turn off cellular data can be a little trickier, so follow the links below for instructions on how to do so on both&nbsp;operating systems:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/support.apple.com\/en-us\/HT201299\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Instructions on how to turn off cellular data on your iPhone<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.techadvisor.co.uk\/how-to\/google-android\/how-limit-data-usage-on-android-3509785\/\">Instructions on how to turn off cellular data on Android<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The downside of this method is that it\u2019s pretty easy to circumvent. If you <em>really<\/em> want to check your email or Instagram feed, all you have to do is turn your cell data and wifi back on. But for many people, simply adding in this small buffer lessens the temptation to check their phone all the time. Human beings are lazy. Knowing that you\u2019ll have to mess with your phone\u2019s settings to get your smartphone fix will make it more likely that you won\u2019t even bother.<\/p>\n<p>This is a good tactic to use during study or \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/podcast-168-the-value-of-deep-work-in-the-age-of-distraction\/\">deep work<\/a>\u201d sessions or when you simply want to choose certain time periods as \u201cno smartphone time,\u201d like when you get home from work or on a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/tech-sabbath\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tech Sabbath<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You can speed up the dumbification of your phone in Android by using the <a href=\"https:\/\/llamalab.com\/automate\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Automate app<\/a> and creating a workflow that will automatically turn off cell and wifi data at certain times or when you arrive at home from work. Sorry iPhone users&nbsp;&#8212; nothing like this exists for you.<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"border: 0px; background-color: #ffffff;\">\n<h3>Won\u2019t People Be Annoyed With Me If I Don\u2019t Respond to Them Right Away?<\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re a diehard smartphone user, your big concern with turning off notifications and dumbifying your phone will likely be: \u201cBut I need to know as soon as I get an email or text. I\u2019ve got to respond to it right away.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But this is mostly bull. While the immediacy of digital communication has conditioned us to <em>feel<\/em> that all dispatches are urgent, the vast majority are not.<\/p>\n<p>Even in business, most email can wait an hour or two (heck, most email doesn\u2019t need a response for an entire day &#8212; if ever!) before it needs a response. And if it\u2019s truly urgent and important, or a genuine&nbsp;emergency, the person can just call you.<\/p>\n<p>The same goes for personal text messaging. I know there\u2019s an expectation that you should respond to texts right away or within a few minutes, but in my experience, most text messages aren\u2019t urgent or important. It\u2019s mainly idle chit-chat &#8212; sharing some good news, planning a weekend dinner, sharing funny pics or links. And once you start responding, it\u2019s hard to stop. It puts you in a state of constant divided attention throughout the day.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do that to your brain. Turn off the text notifications and only check your phone during certain windows, not because a ping has conditioned you to check it. To the extent that you can, you need to control your attention, rather than letting others control it.<\/p>\n<p>I know being less responsive may come off as rude to some, but if you want to have a more focused and less distracted life, you need to be a little harder to get ahold of.<\/p>\n<p>Some entrepreneurs and execs who only check their email\/phone at certain times have an auto-response that lets the&nbsp;sender&nbsp;know about their policy. But I always feel this need to announce your freedom from your phone comes off as self-important and unnecessary. The expectation of an immediate response is unwarranted in the first place, and there\u2019s no need to explain yourself.<\/p>\n<p>While at first your associates and friends will likely be a little peeved that you take so long to respond to texts and emails, they\u2019ll eventually come to get a feel for your new phone checking rhythms and habits and will adjust their expectations accordingly.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Remove Certain Apps to Make Your Smartphone Dumber<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Another tactic to dumbify your smartphone while keeping the benefits that come with your device is to remove the apps that 1) don\u2019t provide any significant improvement to your life and 2) encourage distracted thinking.<\/p>\n<p>If you sit down to honestly evaluate each app on your smartphone, you\u2019ll probably realize that maybe 20% of them provide significant improvement to your life while not being distracting, while the other 80% are extremely habit forming and, at best, mildly entertaining. Seriously. How has checking Instagram every 10 minutes or beating another level on Candy Crush significantly improved your life? It probably hasn\u2019t and if you want to be more focused and present, you should get rid of them. That\u2019s what we\u2019re going to do right now.<\/p>\n<p>Look at every single little app on your screen. As your eyes rest on each one, ask yourself 1) \u201cDoes this app significantly improve my life (or is work essential)?\u201d and 2) \u201cDoes this app get in the way of deep thinking?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If your answers are \u201cno\u201d to the first question and \u201cyes\u201d to the second, immediately delete the app. Games and social media apps like Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat typically fall into this category.<\/p>\n<p>If your answers are \u201cyes\u201d to the first question and \u201cno\u201d to the second, keep the app. Utility apps like banking, Google Maps, and e-readers like Kindle might fall into this category. They can make your life better, but you don\u2019t have the same itch to check them all the time like you do with Twitter or Instagram.<\/p>\n<p>It gets trickier when your answers are \u201cyes\u201d and \u201cyes.\u201d Maybe you need these apps for work, but they\u2019re also a&nbsp;source of constant temptation. Apps like email, text messaging, and perhaps a few social media apps might fall under this rubric. How do we manage our attention with these apps?<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s where we\u2019ll turn next.<\/p>\n<h3>Fight Technology With Technology&nbsp;&#8212; Apps to Manage Your Smartphone Use<\/h3>\n<p>So you\u2019ve pared down your apps to the most essential. Even with that done, you still have the temptation to constantly check these work or life essential apps over and over to scratch a mental itch.<\/p>\n<p>Take email for example. Sure, your job may need you to check and answer email from your phone, but do you really have to check it all the time? Probably not. Most emails you get aren\u2019t important or even urgent, so you can probably wait until you get to your desktop to answer them. But it\u2019s hard to not check your email. There\u2019s always that hope that the next email you get will be filled with life-altering news.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe you use Instagram for your job or to keep up with your family. I get it. That\u2019s why I have Instagram on my phone. But you don\u2019t need to scroll through it&nbsp;every 30 minutes. If your Instagram feed looks anything like mine, you\u2019re going to see pretty much the same thing every time you check &#8212; dudes deadlifting, dudes shooting guns, dudes showing off their cool outfit of the day, some nice nature pics, and, of course, artistic-looking motivational quotes. Basically, I\u2019m not missing out on much if I don\u2019t check. But the way Instagram is set up, the infinite scroll makes it irresistible to check. Like email, there\u2019s always the hope that with just one more scroll, you\u2019ll come across an amazingly entertaining or cool picture &#8212; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/fighting-fomo-4-questions-that-will-crush-the-fear-of-missing-out\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">something your brain worries it\u2019ll miss out on<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t or simply don\u2019t want to remove these distracting and habit-forming apps, you can manage the desire to constantly check them by using technology to fight technology. We\u2019re going to use blocking\/time managing apps to limit how much and when we can use our most distracting and habit-forming apps.<\/p>\n<p>First a note about these apps: most of them are Android. Unfortunately, the stringent standards Apple imposes on apps prevents developers from creating ones that allow users to block specific apps on their iPhones. I\u2019ve only come across one app for&nbsp;iPhone that lets you block apps or websites. I\u2019m sure if you jailbroke your phone&nbsp;and had some programming skills, you could create some pretty spiffy apps that allow you to block things. But since most folks don\u2019t know how to do that, they\u2019ll have to settle for some of the other options discussed above to manage their smartphone use.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>App-Managing App for Both Android and iPhone<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/freedom.to\/log-in\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Freedom.<\/a><\/strong> Freedom is a paid service that works across devices. You simply install the app on the devices you want to control your use on, tell Freedom which apps and websites you want to block, and presto! No more distractions. It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re on your iPhone, MacBook, Android, or Windows laptop, all your distracting apps and websites will be blocked when you\u2019ve initiated a Freedom session.<\/p>\n<p>Freedom allows you to schedule distraction-free sessions in advance, so you could create a Pomodoro schedule for yourself throughout the day where Freedom will alternate between 45-minute distraction-free sessions and 15-minute break sessions.<\/p>\n<p>The service is new, so there are a few bugs, but I\u2019ve messed around with it and found it to be pretty dang robust.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re an iPhone user, this is the only app out there I\u2019ve found that will allow you to block certain apps on your phone.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>App-Managing Apps for Android Only<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>My Personal Set-Up<\/h3>\n<p>I use <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rescuetime.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">RescueTime<\/a> to monitor both my desktop and smartphone use and check it weekly to see how I\u2019m spending my time on those two devices.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve made my smartphone dumber by first eliminating non-essential and highly addictive apps from my phone. I don\u2019t have any games, nor Twitter or Facebook. I also don\u2019t have any news reading apps like Flipboard. I used to have them, but I was spending too much time on them and felt they didn\u2019t provide enough ROI.<\/p>\n<p>Because my business relies heavily on email and messaging, I do have Gmail and Google Hangouts on my phone so I can take care of urgent and important business even when I\u2019m away from my computer. I also decided to keep Instagram on my phone because it\u2019s the only way I can upload photos to the Art of Manliness Instagram account. (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/artofmanliness\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Plug: follow us on Instagram!<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>While these apps are work essential, they\u2019re extremely distracting and habit forming. So I use two apps to manage when and how much I can access them.<\/p>\n<p>I use FocusOn to schedule out times when I can\u2019t access my most distracting apps. I\u2019ve scheduled distraction-free times weekday mornings from 5:30 AM until 9:00 AM and from 5:00 PM until 8:00 PM so I can be fully present for things like scripture study, journal writing, working out, and my kids. On Sundays, I block Gmail, Instagram, and my Chrome browser so I can have my weekly Tech Sabbath.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to spend even my non-blocked sessions completely glued to my phone, so I use Stay Focused to limit the amount of time I use these apps when they\u2019re available. I\u2019ve given myself 30 minutes a day for each app. Thirty minutes is just enough time to post a new pic to&nbsp;Instagram&nbsp;as well as do some mindless scrolling and email browsing. Once my time is up, I\u2019m done using those apps for the day.<\/p>\n<p>My smartphone set-up is coupled with my set-up on my MacBook, which ensures that when I\u2019m on my laptop, I stay focused on my most important work and train my mind for deep, focused thinking. I\u2019m amazed at how much more I can get done when I\u2019m not constantly checking my gizmos.<\/p>\n<p>I hope this guide will help you get a handle on your own smartphone habit, so you can use your phone in a way that maximizes its benefits and minimizes its drawbacks. Give these apps and techniques a try if you\u2019re looking to be a more productive, industrious, and successful man.<\/p>\n<p>Be the master of your technology, not its slave!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Smartphones are magical. A device that\u2019s small enough to fit in your pocket, allows you to instantly communicate with virtually anyone on earth, take breathtaking photos, and access humanity\u2019s collected knowledge. Amazing! 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