{"id":47349,"date":"2015-05-11T15:07:31","date_gmt":"2015-05-11T20:07:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/?p=47349"},"modified":"2021-05-30T06:18:26","modified_gmt":"2021-05-30T11:18:26","slug":"psa-half-of-marriages-no-longer-end-in-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/relationships\/marriage\/psa-half-of-marriages-no-longer-end-in-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"PSA: Half of Marriages No Longer End in Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-47351 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2015\/05\/wed.jpg\" alt=\"Vintage couple kissing on wedding day.\" width=\"500\" height=\"341\" srcset=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2015\/05\/wed.jpg 500w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2015\/05\/wed-320x218.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whenever the subject of marriage gets brought up, you can be sure that someone will argue against the institution by trotting out the most famous of famous statistics: half of marriages end in divorce. This seems like a slam dunk factoid as to why folks should avoid the altar.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s just one problem: it isn&#8217;t true and hasn&#8217;t been for awhile now.<\/p>\n<p>Divorce rates have in fact been declining for a&nbsp;few&nbsp;decades and marriages are stronger than they&#8217;ve been in quite sometime. Here are some quotes\/statistics from <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2014\/12\/02\/upshot\/the-divorce-surge-is-over-but-the-myth-lives-on.html?_r=1&amp;abt=0002&amp;abg=1\">The New York Times<\/a><\/em>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The divorce rate peaked in the 1970s and early 1980s and has been declining for the three decades since.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Those who married in the 2000s are so far divorcing at even lower rates.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If current trends continue, <strong>nearly two-thirds of marriages will never involve a divorce<\/strong>, according to data from Justin Wolfers, a University of Michigan economist.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Of college-educated people who married in the early 2000s, <strong>only about 11 percent divorced<\/strong> by their seventh anniversary, the last year for which data is available.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Ultimately, a long view is likely to show that the rapid rise in divorce during the 1970s and early 1980s was an anomaly. <\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Unfortunately, couples in the working class are still divorcing at rates close to the 70s\/80s peak. But overall, marriage in the modern world is quite robust, and seems to be getting stronger, rather than weaker.<\/p>\n<p>Despite the erroneousness of the &#8220;half of marriages end in divorce&#8221; statistic, it steadfastly&nbsp;refuses to die&#8211;probably because it makes for such an&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/beware-the-too-compelling-narrative\/\">incredibly compelling narrative<\/a> for those who want to believe that the&nbsp;world in general, and women in particular, are going downhill and are worse than ever.<\/p>\n<p>Hopefully this PSA will&nbsp;add some balance to such notions. Share it around. Don&#8217;t believe the doom and gloom about matrimony, and if you still want to argue against it, you certainly have the right to do so, just&nbsp;don&#8217;t keep trotting out&nbsp;the same old falsehoods to make your case.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Whenever the subject of marriage gets brought up, you can be sure that someone will argue against the institution by trotting out the most famous of famous statistics: half of marriages end in divorce. This seems like a slam dunk factoid as to why folks should avoid the altar. There&#8217;s just one problem: it isn&#8217;t [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":47351,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[42267,42285],"tags":[42291],"yst_prominent_words":[],"class_list":["post-47349","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage","category-relationships","tag-marriage"],"featured_image_urls":{"large":"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2015\/05\/wed-500x280.jpg","reactor-320":"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2015\/05\/wed-320x218.jpg","rpwe-thumbnail":"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2015\/05\/wed-45x45.jpg"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47349","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47349"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47349\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":122496,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47349\/revisions\/122496"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47351"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47349"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47349"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47349"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=47349"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}} 