{"id":27131,"date":"2012-08-28T21:50:57","date_gmt":"2012-08-29T02:50:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/artofmanliness.com\/?p=27131"},"modified":"2025-12-15T19:59:31","modified_gmt":"2025-12-16T01:59:31","slug":"how-to-treat-life-like-an-experiment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/featured\/how-to-treat-life-like-an-experiment\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Treat Life Like an Experiment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-27132 size-full\" title=\"science3\" src=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/\/2012\/08\/science3.jpg\" alt=\"Vintage scientist man in lab with beakers fluids illustration.\" width=\"433\" height=\"518\" srcset=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2012\/08\/science3.jpg 433w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2012\/08\/science3-320x383.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 433px) 100vw, 433px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Editor&#8217;s note: This is a guest post from Erik Kennedy from <a href=\"http:\/\/thebucketlistsociety.com\/\">The Bucket List Society<\/a>. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>I was quite scared when I woke up Monday morning. &nbsp;I hadn&#8217;t set my alarm the night before, and I didn&#8217;t know if it was 7 AM, 11 AM, or somewhere in-between. &nbsp;How late was I for work? &nbsp;To make it worse, my watches were locked away in a drawer in my desk. &nbsp;All the clocks in my house had tape or paper covering the time. &nbsp;Even the digital clock in the corner of my computer screen had been hidden, and all the settings on my alarm clock had, of course, been cleared.<\/p>\n<p>I walked to the transit stop and took a bus &#8212; I still don&#8217;t know which one &#8212; to work. &nbsp;There seemed to be plenty of other commuters, so maybe I hadn&#8217;t slept in until noon. &nbsp;Fifteen minutes before my first meeting, the Outlook meeting alert didn&#8217;t go off. &nbsp;I had cancelled all alerts for the next work-week. &nbsp;Fortunately, a coworker walked by. &nbsp;&#8220;Hey Erik, I&#8217;ll be a bit late to our meeting later on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s okay!&#8221; I said, relieved for the first time all day. &nbsp;&#8220;Just drop by my office whenever. &nbsp;I&#8217;m not going anywhere.&#8221; &nbsp;I sat back in my chair.<\/p>\n<p>This was only the second morning of my grand experiment.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The Art of the Personal Experiment<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Last fall, I decided it was a worthwhile idea to go without any time-telling mechanism for an entire week. &nbsp;No clocks, no watches, no alarms. &nbsp;The idea was born of a conversation with a friend about how much our wanting to know the time was useful and how much was just an addiction to some bit of knowledge that didn&#8217;t help us &#8212; something that made us feel better prepared, but didn&#8217;t make us any wiser.<\/p>\n<p>Big questions to be tackling on a Monday morning, I&#8217;ll admit. &nbsp;And come the following Saturday night, I still hadn&#8217;t had a mind-blowing epiphany on the matter. &nbsp;I had more or less unreservedly&nbsp;arrived at the conclusion that knowing the time&nbsp;<em>can<\/em>&nbsp;be pretty useful, but isn&#8217;t always. Useful, <em>I know<\/em>. &nbsp;But while I laugh about it now, I don&#8217;t regret one second of that week.<\/p>\n<p>See, I&#8217;ve got a thing for personal experiments. &nbsp;Self-science. &nbsp;In the past few years, I&#8217;ve done a week without clocks, a week with only one meal per day, a week of&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/thebucketlistsociety.com\/2012\/06\/02\/personal-experiment-7-days-of-value\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">giving back to my network<\/a>, and a stretch of a few months during which I recorded everything in my life that made me noticeably more happy or less happy. &nbsp;I&#8217;ve also kept track of more standard things at various times &#8212; how many push-ups I can do, how many carbs I&#8217;m eating, or how much money I&#8217;m spending.<\/p>\n<p>In short, I&#8217;ve tried to treat my life as an experiment &#8212; or, rather, a series of short experiments. &nbsp;But whether it&#8217;s measuring if clocks are a needless stressor or figuring out the best weekly push-up routine, all of this self-experimenting stuff boils down to a few simple steps:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Think of a way in which you might live a better, happier life<\/li>\n<li>Do that thing &#8212; at least for a short time<\/li>\n<li>Reflect on what you learned and change your behavior accordingly<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>It&#8217;s not rocket science. &nbsp;In fact, it would be a stretch to call it science at all &#8212; but it&#8217;s based on the same basic principles: curiosity, a desire for improvement, and a humility towards finding the truth, wherever the search might lead. &nbsp;And it utilizes the same steps of the scientific method as well:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ask a question<\/li>\n<li>Do background research<\/li>\n<li>Construct a hypothesis<\/li>\n<li>Test your hypothesis by doing an experiment<\/li>\n<li>Analyze your data and draw a conclusion<\/li>\n<li>Communicate your results<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In a way, though, this do-it-yourself experimentation has a leg up on labs and research papers. &nbsp;We live in a time where you can find studies to back up&nbsp;anything. &nbsp;Coffee is great for you. &nbsp;Coffee is awful for you. &nbsp;Fat is bad. &nbsp;Nope, it&#8217;s saturated fat. &nbsp;Just kidding, it\u2019s carbs. &nbsp;Actually, meat is bad for you. &nbsp;Nope, you&#8217;re bad for meat.<\/p>\n<p>In the noisy commotion of the science-media complex, sometimes the clearest voice is a simple one-man experiment. &nbsp;&#8220;I tried two things. &nbsp;I found one was better. &nbsp;I&#8217;m going to do that thing until I find something even better.&#8221; &nbsp;Those with a background in science and engineering might balk: a sample size of one isn&#8217;t valid! &nbsp;How can you base your life off of something as trivial as a week-long, one-person experiment?<\/p>\n<p>My answer is simple: I&#8217;m not trying to test cures for cancer here. &nbsp;Treating life like an experiment is about curiosity and attempting to live better, not &#8220;proving&#8221; beyond any shadow of a doubt the merits or demerits of any way of life. &nbsp;When I found that not driving to work drastically increased the chances of me not having a bad day, I&#8217;m wasn\u2019t trying to legislate anything based on the conclusion. &nbsp;I&#8217;m just trying to figure out how I can get one step closer to better.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>What to Test With Your Experiment<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The experimental life is one of boundary-pushing and agency over one&#8217;s environment. &nbsp;To those ends, you can test almost anything. &nbsp;Here are a few things that I&#8217;ve heard about people testing &#8212; or experimented with myself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Health and Exercise<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Diet<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; The most common thing to experiment with. &nbsp;Give up carbs, give up snacks, give up all food for a day. &nbsp;A friend of mine ate nothing but ice cream for 100 hours &#8212; so there&#8217;s that too.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Endurance sports<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; Swap training plans. &nbsp;What&#8217;s better &#8212; long-distance cardio workouts or sprint\/interval workouts? &nbsp;How do you recover from injuries faster?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Strength training<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; How frequently do you lift? &nbsp;Number of reps and sets? &nbsp;Does your sleep or diet affect your ability?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sports skills<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; A very large category: golf swings, tennis serves, baseball pitches, etc. &nbsp;From rock climbing to unicycle riding, when&#8217;s the last time you put some variation and reflection in your training?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Work<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Productivity<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; How do you focus and be most productive? &nbsp;What are your biggest time-wasters? &nbsp;There are all sorts of productivity systems out there, from the&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/thebucketlistsociety.com\/2012\/03\/02\/experiments-in-productivity-the-action-method\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Action Method<\/a><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">,<\/span>&nbsp;to the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Pomodoro_Technique\">Pomodoro Technique<\/a>, to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.personalkanban.com\/pk\/primers\/what-is-a-kanban-2\/\">Kanbans<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Schedule<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; When are you most efficient? &nbsp;How often do you check email, and what if you checked it less?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Goal-setting<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; Do short-term or long-term goals help you achieve more in your job?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Lifestyle<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Hobbies<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; Maybe you&#8217;re not intense enough about your hobbies to care how quickly you improve at them, but studying how you do at new, different activities is a great way to understand your personal learning style.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Addictions<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; What do you have an unhealthy dependence on? &nbsp;What do you default to when you feel stressed and lazy and can&#8217;t seem to pull yourself away from? &nbsp;As far as addiction testing goes, cold turkey experiments always yield the most fascinating results.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Any question about yourself<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; What makes you happy or unhappy?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Any question about others<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8211; What makes other people happy or unhappy? &nbsp;What is attractive to them? &nbsp;What is interesting? &nbsp;Use only for good!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Tools for Quantifying and Experimenting With Your Life<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The Art of Manliness has long preached that true manliness is not about purchasing an image, buying gear, etc.&#8211; it&#8217;s how you act and the attitude you hold. &nbsp;Similarly, the experimental life is not one that requires fancy equipment or expensive tools.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, depending on the experiment, you probably own everything you need to get started. &nbsp;But in the interest of knowing what&#8217;s out there, here are some apps and websites that are useful for running experiments on different aspects of your life. &nbsp;Most are either free or have a free version.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/skydrive.live.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Excel<\/strong><\/a><strong>&nbsp;or&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/accounts.google.com\/ServiceLogin?passive=1209600&amp;osid=1&amp;continue=https:\/\/docs.google.com\/&amp;followup=https:\/\/docs.google.com\/&amp;emr=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Google spreadsheets<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;&#8211; If you&#8217;re tracking something quantitative or long-term, you&#8217;ll likely need a spreadsheet. &nbsp;Both Excel and Google spreadsheets are accessible anywhere and have great chart-making capabilities.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/healthmonth.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>HealthMonth<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;&#8211; This website is based around trying to make one-month improvements to your health. &nbsp;Quit caffeine for a month. &nbsp;No alcohol for a month. &nbsp;Etc.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nudgemail.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>NudgeMail<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;&#8211; If you need to send yourself email reminders for whatever your experiment is, NudgeMail is a great service. &nbsp;Just email&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:monday9am@nudgemail.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">monday9am@nudgemail.com<\/a>&nbsp;and whatever you put in the subject line will appear in your inbox at that time Monday morning. &nbsp;Or, if you&#8217;re in a long-term experiment and need reminders,&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:daily8am@nudgemail.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">daily8am@nudgemail.com<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rescuetime.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>RescueTime<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;&#8211; Want to see what you&#8217;re spending your time on your computer doing? &nbsp;Rescue Time and similar programs are great for tracking your&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/character\/behavior\/how-to-quit-mindlessly-surfing-the-internet-and-actually-get-stuff-done\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">productivity and internet usage<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/daytum.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>daytum<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;&#8211; This site is devoted to tracking and displaying all kinds of data about yourself. &nbsp;Advanced experimenters only!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>There&#8217;s also a few other things I want to mention in the area of data-tracking.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/quantifiedself.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Quantified Self<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;&#8211; This is an international network of self-tracking enthusiasts. &nbsp;They have free <a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/topics\/quantified-self\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">monthly meetings<\/a>&nbsp;in cities around the world and lots of lessons online. &nbsp;As the name implies, this group is a bit more into the numerical side of things. &nbsp;I&#8217;ve always left their meetings excited and curious about myself and the world around me.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/B005PUONIK\/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B005PUONIK&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=stucosuccess-20\"><strong>Fitbit<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;&#8211; Fitbit is the most popular product I&#8217;ve seen for tracking some basic metrics around steps walked, calories burned, and sleep. &nbsp;You can clip it to your belt and whenever you&#8217;re within 15 feet of your computer, it will automatically upload all your data to your computer. &nbsp;At $100, this may be worth checking out, depending on what you want to measure and learn about yourself.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>What I&#8217;ve Learned from Self-tracking and Living Out Experiments<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Benjamin Franklin&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/character\/manly-lessons\/lessons-in-manliness-benjamin-franklins-pursuit-of-the-virtuous-life\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tracked his shortcomings<\/a>&nbsp;for years and realized something that somehow evades many of us: we are not perfect, as hard as we try. &nbsp;But there&#8217;s a caveat. &nbsp;&#8220;I was surprised to find myself so much fuller of faults than I had imagined,&#8221; he said, &#8220;<em>but I had the satisfaction of seeing them diminish.<\/em>&#8221; He later added, \u201cBut, on the whole, tho&#8217; I never arrived at the perfection I had been so ambitious of obtaining, but fell far short of it, yet I was, by the endeavor, a better and a happier man than I otherwise should have been if I had not attempted it.\u201d We aren&#8217;t perfect, but we&nbsp;<em>can<\/em>&nbsp;be better, even if it\u2019s just through the process of attempting to be so.<\/p>\n<p>None of my forays into the experimental life are as weighty as Ben Franklin&#8217;s moral quest, but I feel like I&#8217;ve still learned a few worthwhile lessons &#8212; and while these may be nothing more than common sense to most people, learning them through my own <em>experience<\/em> means I&#8217;ve learned them better and will remember them longer.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If I want to eat healthy, the single best thing for me to do is never,&nbsp;<em>ever<\/em>&nbsp;see unhealthy food. &nbsp;I can resist any temptation until I see it.<\/li>\n<li>If I want to be happy, I should go on good dates, eat healthy and delicious meals, enjoy nice weather, and plan things I&#8217;m excited about.<\/li>\n<li>Being happy and avoiding unhappiness are not the same.<\/li>\n<li>If I want to avoid stress, I should never drive in Seattle.<\/li>\n<li>If I thought about whether or not to buy something for a length of time proportional to how much it cost, I&#8217;d save some headache and a&nbsp;<em>lot<\/em>&nbsp;more money.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>As my Clockless Week drew to a close, I realized I had learned some things from that experiment too. &nbsp;The sun had made a better alarm clock than I thought. &nbsp; I hadn&#8217;t missed a single meeting at work (it helped that it was a slower season and my boss was out of town the whole week). &nbsp;Time did feel a bit more free and less stressed. &nbsp;There was a 45-minute wait at the restaurant Friday night, but I couldn&#8217;t have cared less. &#8220;That&#8217;s fine!&#8221; I beamed. &nbsp;&#8220;We&#8217;ve got nowhere to be!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sunday morning, I woke up with nothing to do and no hurry to do it in. &nbsp;But I had a twitch. &nbsp;Before I brushed my teeth, before I got dressed, I went from room to room and peeled the tape off all the clocks. &nbsp;I still can&#8217;t figure out how it made me better off to know the time that morning, but even so, I had to breathe a sigh of relief.<\/p>\n<p>It just felt good to know.<\/p>\n<p>_________________________________<\/p>\n<p><em>Erik Kennedy writes about life goals at&nbsp;<\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/thebucketlistsociety.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>The Bucket List Society<\/em><\/a><em>. &nbsp;In addition, he is spreading a network of accountability groups dedicated to bucket lists &#8212; a book club for your life goals &#8212; called&nbsp;<\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/thebucketlistsociety.com\/the-finishing-school\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>The Finishing School<\/em><\/a><em>. &nbsp;He can be found mostly in Seattle. &nbsp;The first item on his <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/character\/behavior\/getting-it-done-a-guide-to-creating-a-proper-bucket-list\/\">bucket list<\/a> is to shave his face with a whaling harpoon.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Editor&#8217;s note: This is a guest post from Erik Kennedy from The Bucket List Society. 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