{"id":193252,"date":"2026-04-30T09:14:51","date_gmt":"2026-04-30T14:14:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/?p=193449"},"modified":"2026-04-30T09:14:51","modified_gmt":"2026-04-30T14:14:51","slug":"how-to-use-an-elevator-like-a-gentleman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/social\/etiquette\/how-to-use-an-elevator-like-a-gentleman\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Use an Elevator Like a Gentleman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-193454\" src=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Elevator-like-Gentleman-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"750\" height=\"1297\"\/><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"416\">There are few places in modern life where we\u2019re forced into such close quarters with strangers as the humble elevator. For a brief moment, people of all stripes \u2014 coworkers, neighbors, delivery drivers, and the guy who just reheated fish in the break room \u2014 are pressed together in a small, moving box. It\u2019s a setting ripe for potential awkwardness and irritation.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"418\" data-end=\"866\">That liminal space in an elevator also offers a small but meaningful opportunity to practice everyday courtesy. Like all etiquette, it isn\u2019t about stiff formality, but rather a sense of awareness, restraint, and consideration for others. A few simple habits, as outlined in the guide above, can turn a potentially uncomfortable ride into a smooth, frictionless interaction. This is a situation that you actually <em>don&#8217;t<\/em> want to be memorable; if you make it into someone&#8217;s stories of an elevator ride, it&#8217;s likely that things have gone awry.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"868\" data-end=\"1006\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\">Master these basics to become an elevator passenger with an air of gentlemanly grace.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"868\" data-end=\"1006\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.storytellersworkshop.com\"><em>Illustration by Ted Slampyak<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are few places in modern life where we\u2019re forced into such close quarters with strangers as the humble elevator. For a brief moment, people of all stripes \u2014 coworkers, neighbors, delivery drivers, and the guy who just reheated fish in the break room \u2014 are pressed together in a small, moving box. It\u2019s a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":26,"featured_media":193455,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[502,318,42406],"tags":[],"yst_prominent_words":[],"class_list":["post-193252","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-character","category-etiquette","category-old__visual-guides"],"featured_image_urls":{},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/193252","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/26"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=193252"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/193252\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=193252"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=193252"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=193252"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/app-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=193252"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}