{"id":178052,"date":"2023-08-04T16:20:16","date_gmt":"2023-08-04T21:20:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/?p=178052"},"modified":"2023-08-04T16:20:16","modified_gmt":"2023-08-04T21:20:16","slug":"odds-ends-august-4-2023","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/odds-ends\/odds-ends-august-4-2023\/","title":{"rendered":"Odds &#038; Ends: August 4, 2023"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-174635\" src=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Odds-and-Ends-header-v3.1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"650\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Odds-and-Ends-header-v3.1.jpg 650w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Odds-and-Ends-header-v3.1-372x230.jpg 372w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Odds-and-Ends-header-v3.1-320x197.jpg 320w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Odds-and-Ends-header-v3.1-640x394.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/ideas\/archive\/2023\/07\/christian-church-communitiy-participation-drop\/674843\/\">&#8220;The Misunderstood Reason Millions of Americans Stopped Going to Church.&#8221;<\/a> <\/strong>We&#8217;ve talked about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/podcast\/rise-of-the-religious-nones\/\">the rise of religious &#8220;nones&#8221; on the podcast<\/a> with political scientist Ryan Burge. The author of this article highlights a new book coming out that uses Burge&#8217;s research to explore what the book&#8217;s authors call the &#8220;dechurching&#8221; of America. The book argues that besides abuse scandals and the rise of secularism, Americans have also stopped going to church because modern life doesn&#8217;t lend itself to living in community and, counterintuitively, because churches ask so little from their members these days.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/47fDdal\"><strong>Shotgun: The Hilarious Family Card Game For Road Trips.<\/strong><\/a> When the McKays go on road trips, we have our kids cycle through periods of screen time and periods where they have to entertain themselves sans screens. Earlier this summer, I queried our X followers for some road trip game ideas that the kids could play during the latter stretches, and Shotgun was recommended multiple times. Each card has a silly prompt like &#8220;Who weighed the most as a baby? Fattest baby gets two points,&#8221; and &#8220;Vote on who has been the highest maintenance person on this trip. That person loses a point.&#8221; We all enjoyed it on a recent trip. We didn&#8217;t play for points, but I think it would be fun to do so and to offer prizes.<\/p>\n<p>Another fun game for road trips is <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3OlRE42\">interstate highway bingo.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3Yhq24F\"><em>Gates of Fire<\/em> by Steven Pressfield.<\/a> <\/strong>We&#8217;ve had author <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/podcast\/art-of-manliness-podcast-episode-55-the-warrior-ethos-with-steven-pressfield\/\">Steven Pressfield on the podcast<\/a> several times. One of my all-time favorite books he&#8217;s written is <em>Gates of Fire<\/em>. It&#8217;s a fictional recounting of the Battle of Thermopylae. It was once a part of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/living\/reading\/the-best-of-the-marine-corps-reading-lists\/\">Marine Corps Reading List<\/a> and inspired an article we published several years ago: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/character\/manly-lessons\/courage-vs-boldness-how-to-live-with-spartan-bravery\/\">Courage vs. Boldness<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/prf.hn\/click\/camref:1100liyHY\/destination:https%3A%2F%2Fhuckberry.com%2Fstore%2Fduck-camp%2Fcategory%2Fp%2F83047-mallard-hat\"><strong>Mallard Hat.<\/strong><\/a> A mallard is just a damn handsome bird. I love looking at mallards, whether at the pond or on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fws.gov\/library\/collections\/federal-duck-stamp-gallery\">Federal Duck Stamp art<\/a>. So when I saw this ball cap with a mallard embroidered on it at Huckberry, I had to get it. It looks even better in person than the pictures convey. It&#8217;s real awesome and my new favorite hat.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quote of the Week<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The man who is worthy of being a leader of men will never complain of the stupidity of his helpers, of the faithlessness of his followers, of the ingratitude of mankind, nor of the non-appreciation of the public. These things are all a part of the great game of life, and to meet them and not go down before them in discouragement and defeat, is the final proof of power.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u2014Elbert Hubbard<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;The Misunderstood Reason Millions of Americans Stopped Going to Church.&#8221; We&#8217;ve talked about the rise of religious &#8220;nones&#8221; on the podcast with political scientist Ryan Burge. 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