{"id":138198,"date":"2021-09-03T14:29:34","date_gmt":"2021-09-03T19:29:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/?p=138198"},"modified":"2024-06-29T20:05:38","modified_gmt":"2024-06-30T01:05:38","slug":"how-to-deal-with-a-bad-haircut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beta.artofmanliness.com\/style\/grooming\/how-to-deal-with-a-bad-haircut\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Deal With a Bad Haircut"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-138203\" src=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Bad-Haircut-Header-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"725\" height=\"405\" srcset=\"https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Bad-Haircut-Header-1.jpg 725w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Bad-Haircut-Header-1-320x179.jpg 320w, https:\/\/content.artofmanliness.com\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Bad-Haircut-Header-1-640x358.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 725px) 100vw, 725px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Picture this. You\u2019re at the barbershop. Your barber takes a few final snips to clean up some stray hairs around your ear line. He takes off your cape and swivels your chair around so you\u2019re facing the mirror. Then he holds a handheld mirror up behind you so you can see the back of your head.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With a big smile on his face, the barber asks, \u201cSo what do you think?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What you think is that it\u2019s a terrible haircut. The worst one you\u2019ve ever gotten in your life. You\u2019re going to have to walk around with a paper bag over your head like Charlie Brown.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But instead of saying that, you mumble \u201cIt\u2019s fine,\u201d swipe your card to pay (even adding a tip for the butchering, cuz you\u2019re such a nice guy), and walk out the door.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s a better way to handle getting a bad haircut. And to learn what that is, I talked to my barber, Thad Forrester, co-owner of&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/hudsonhawk.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"external noopener noreferrer\">Hudson \/ Hawk Barber &amp; Shop<\/a>&nbsp;(locations in KS, AR, and MO). Here\u2019s what he told me.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Prevent a Bad Haircut From Happening in the First Place<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best way to manage a bad haircut is to avoid getting one in the first place. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure and all that jazz.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thad recommends that before your barber gets anywhere close to your head with a pair of clippers, you do a thorough consultation with him or her about your expectations \u2014 especially if this is the first time that they&#8217;ll be cutting your hair or you\u2019re changing your usual style. \u201cIf your barber skips this step,\u201d Thad says, \u201cit might be time to look for a different one.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This pre-cut consultation should be a two-way conversation; not only should you fill in your barber about what you&#8217;re looking for, Thad says a good barber or stylist should ask you the following questions:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How long has it been since your last haircut? Is this normally how long you go between cuts? (Gives the barber an idea of how much length to take off.)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you wanting to stick with the same basic style or are you looking to change it up? (During this time, the barber should also be combing through your hair, looking for any bumps, potential problem areas, difficult growth patterns, etc.)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How much time do you spend styling your hair? or What\u2019s your morning hair styling routine look like? (Gives the barber insight into whether you blow-dry, use product, etc., allowing him to recommend an appropriate look or recommend a different style.)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What do you like about your current hairstyle? Is there anything you don\u2019t like or would like to change? Any areas of your hair that give you issues? (Lets the barber know areas that you\u2019re particularly sensitive to, such as a difficult swirl in the back that sticks up if it gets too short, ect.)<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Clear communication with your barber will go a long way in preventing a bad haircut from happening and ensuring you get a final result you\u2019re happy with. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/get-the-perfect-haircut-how-to-talk-to-your-barber\/\">Make sure to read our guide on how to talk to your barber<\/a> so that you\u2019re on the same page with him.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Be Assertive and Speak Up During Your Haircut<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to Thad, a good barber will check in with you periodically during the cut to make sure he\u2019s cutting your hair in accordance with your desires. Again, this is especially true if this is the first time he\u2019s cutting your hair or you\u2019re changing up the way you normally get your hair cut.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When your barber asks you these in-progress questions, be honest. Don\u2019t just mumble your assent because you\u2019re shy\/passive.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your barber doesn\u2019t check in with you during the cut, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/how-to-be-assertive\/\">be assertive (which doesn&#8217;t have to mean jerky)<\/a> and speak up when you see him doing something you don\u2019t like. If he\u2019s cutting your sides too short, let him know right away. He might be able to course correct a bit. Even if he can\u2019t, it\u2019s feedback for him to use next time.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>What to Do When Your Haircut Is Finished, and It\u2019s Still Bad<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s say you did all of the above, and you\u2019re still not happy with your haircut when the barber does the final reveal and asks you how it looks.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thad says to be honest: \u201cIf there\u2019s an area you see that needs to be addressed, tell your barber and ask if there\u2019s anything he can do to correct it. A good barber wants honest feedback and won\u2019t get offended. We want to keep polishing our skillset.\u201d A good barber wants you to leave his chair completely happy with your haircut.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To correct a cut, usually you\u2019ll need to go shorter. Sometimes, you\u2019ll need to reset things entirely by going all the way down to a buzz cut. But look on the bright side: Thad says every man should try a buzz cut at least once in his life, as it may turn out you like it and look really good with one. If you don\u2019t, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artofmanliness.com\/articles\/grow-out-buzz-cut\/\">here\u2019s how to grow it out<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If after asking your barber to correct your bad cut, it still looks bad, visit another shop and see what a different barber or stylist might be able to do for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Deciding What to Do Moving Forward<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you consider your bad haircut, Thad says to try to be objective about it and \u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">decide if it is: A) a bad cut, meaning poor blending, visible lines, uneven lengths, etc. Or B) Not the cut you wanted. Option A would lead me to select a new barber, because this is a significant skillset deficiency. If it\u2019s option B (a technically sound cut, just not the look you wanted) and I liked the shop and the barber gave me a good experience, I would go back and make sure our communication was more clear to try and achieve the look I wanted.\u201d&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From Thad\u2019s perspective as a business owner, the worst thing you can do is say, \u201cIt looks great,\u201d and then walk out and leave a bad review on social media. When a client isn&#8217;t happy with their haircut, Thad appreciates when they let him know directly at the time or later via email or private message. As he says, \u201cA good shop and barber will appreciate hearing how they can do better. We all make mistakes. The measure of a good shop is how we address them and try to make them right. Going direct to the business owner or barber shows mutual respect and is more well-received and likely to be considered seriously.\u201d If communicating directly doesn\u2019t turn out to be fruitful, and you want to post a review online, make the feedback constructive and find someone different to cut your hair moving forward.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Picture this. You\u2019re at the barbershop. Your barber takes a few final snips to clean up some stray hairs around your ear line. He takes off your cape and swivels your chair around so you\u2019re facing the mirror. 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