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Everyone knows how difficult it can be to achieve goals and follow through on new, positive habits. We want to exercise, but it\u2019s so much easier to watch Netflix. We want to homecook our meals, but it\u2019s so much more convenient to order food on DoorDash. We want to knock a bunch of errands off our to-do lists, but it\u2019s so much more relaxing to hang around the house. There\u2019s simply a big gap between what we <\/span>cognitively<\/span><\/i> want to do, and what we <\/span>viscerally<\/span><\/i> want to do.<\/span><\/p>\n To try to bridge this gap, we typically rely on discipline. We try to flagellate ourselves into doing what we know we should. And then, when we still fail to follow through on stuff, we flagellate ourselves for not having sufficient willpower.<\/span><\/p>\n Fortunately, there\u2019s a way out of this fruitless cycle. A technique for making our habits happen, and doing so with less effort and more pleasure: bundling our temptations. <\/span><\/p>\n if people focused on making long-term goal pursuit more enjoyable in the <\/span>short-term<\/span><\/i> . . . they\u2019d be far more successful. \u2014Katy Milkman,<\/span> How to Change<\/span><\/i><\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n It\u2019s not so hard to understand the reason we struggle so mightily to follow through with our good intentions: The things we aim to complete are often not enjoyable or rewarding to do in the short-term. Things like going to the post office, washing the dishes, and doing taxes have a long-term payoff, but simply aren\u2019t pleasurable in the moment. Ditto with cooking and exercise, at least for some people. So, when it comes to choosing to do these tiresome tasks, or, choosing to do something that\u2019s more immediately satisfying \u2014 scrolling through social media, watching television, ordering takeout \u2014 our pleasure-seeking selves choose the latter over the former more often than not.<\/span><\/p>\n Once you understand this obvious problem, the solution also becomes obvious \u2014 though you may not have ever really thought through it before: make working on your goals more rewarding.<\/span><\/p>\n You can\u2019t do this by changing the nature of the task itself, which, as we\u2019ve already said, is inherently <\/span>un<\/span><\/i>pleasurable. But, you can add enjoyment to the task by <\/span>pairing it<\/span><\/i> with something that <\/span>is<\/span><\/i> pleasurable. <\/span><\/p>\n This is a concept developed by the behavioral scientist Katy Milkman, which she calls \u201ctemptation bundling.\u201d You take something you need to do, something you should do but don\u2019t enjoy doing, and you bundle it with something you don\u2019t need to do but intrinsically enjoy, and are already tempted towards. You bundle something with long-term value but no short-term reward, with something with no long-term payoff but plenty of short-term satisfaction.<\/span><\/p>\n For example, Milkman used to have a hard time getting herself out the door to go to the gym. To motivate herself, she started listening to Alex Cross detective novels \u2014 a guilty pleasure \u2014 while working out. What used to seem like a chore \u2014 logging miles on the treadmill \u2014 became something she really looked forward to.<\/span><\/p>\n I don\u2019t enjoy running errands around town \u2014 Amazon returns, grocery shopping, you know the drill \u2014 when there are a million other things I could be doing. To be a little more pumped up about it, I only listen to Halsey while putzing around in the minivan. (She slaps, guys!) <\/span><\/p>\n Find it hard to get motivated to fold the laundry? Listen to a podcast while you do it. Want to eat more homemade meals, but don\u2019t enjoy cooking? Crack open a particular beer or wine while you chop and saute to make the process more pleasurable. <\/span><\/p>\n By coupling a rewarding \u201cguilty pleasure\u201d with a tedious-but-important goal\/habit\/task, you\u2019ll be far more likely to follow through with it. <\/span><\/p>\n This small act of neurological trickery is not a panacea. There are a couple keys to making it work for you, as well as limitations to keep in mind. <\/span><\/p>\n Only <\/i><\/b>do the particular \u201cvice\u201d when you\u2019re doing the non-pleasurable task.<\/b> In <\/span>How to Change<\/span><\/i>, Katy Milkman writes that \u201ctemptation bundling certainly works best if you can actually restrict an indulgence to whenever you\u2019re doing a task that requires an extra boost of motivation.\u201d You\u2019ll be much more motivated to tackle something when it\u2019s the <\/span>only<\/span><\/i> way to access a certain reward. Want to listen to Alex Cross? You have to get on the treadmill. Want to listen to Halsey? You\u2019ve got to get in the minivan.<\/span><\/p>\n Keep one of the things you\u2019re bundling somewhat passive in nature. <\/b>Milkman writes, \u201cnot all activities can be bundled with one another. . . . In general, a cognitively demanding task can\u2019t easily be paired with another cognitively demanding task.\u201d Say you love crossword puzzles. You try to bundle puzzles with working out \u2014 maybe you can get a few clues solved on the stairmaster or between sets? Think again \u2014 you\u2019re going to have a hard time focusing on either thing. In most cases, it\u2019s the pleasurable thing that needs to be somewhat passive: the cheap thrill of your favorite Netflix series, something fun to eat or drink, music you really enjoy. The options are somewhat limited. <\/span><\/p>\n Make it social! <\/b>If you can get other people on board with temptation bundling, it can become even more enjoyable. Have a favorite coffee shop in town? Convince your buddy to only grab coffee there after a run with you. Have a bunch of random life admin stuff to do \u2014 school announcements to look over, gifts to buy online, etc.? Have a \u201clife admin study hall.\u201d<\/a> Create a nostalgia-filled playlist or pick a nice bottle of wine that you only indulge in during these collective study halls. If you\u2019re not careful, you might come to look forward to budgeting and inbox clean-ups! <\/span><\/p>\n Know that it doesn\u2019t work forever.<\/b> In her research, Milkman found that the peak benefits of temptation bundling lasted for about seven weeks. Beyond that, you get a little too used to the pleasurable half of the bundling for it to continue offering a strong motivational pull. Luckily, by that point, you\u2019ve either built up the habit well enough to keep it going or you\u2019ve come to enjoy it enough to keep going with either a smaller amount of bundled motivation or perhaps none at all; over time, we often come to intrinsically like things we initially didn\u2019t enjoy. Temptation bundling works effectively to provide the momentum to get a new habit rolling until it becomes self-sustaining. <\/span><\/p>\n Also, it\u2019s not that the tactic stops working entirely after the initial two-month-period expires \u2014 the boost just isn\u2019t as potent as in those early weeks. To be sure, Milkman still enjoys Alex Cross at the gym; she just doesn\u2019t need that boost to get out the door like she used to. <\/span><\/p>\n We certainly haven\u2019t covered all the ideas here for temptation bundling. Though the possibilities are not endless, there\u2019s plenty of room for creativity within these bounds. Take a look at the positive habits you\u2019re struggling to get going, then take a look at some of the small but pleasurable things you enjoy, and figure out a way to bundle them together in order to better yourself and have some fun along the way. <\/span><\/p>\n Be sure to check out our podcast with Katy for even more concrete tips on how to change and better your life: <\/strong><\/p>\nA Primer on Temptation Bundling <\/h3>\n
Getting the Most Out of Temptation Bundling <\/h3>\n